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- We Need To Talk A Memoir About Wealth
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- By Jennifer Risher
- Xeno Books
- 280 pp.
We Need to Talk: A Memoir About Wealth examines the hidden impact of wealth on identity, relationships, and sense of place in the world. In addition to telling her story, the author interviewed 11 women and included their voices to add different perspectives. We Need to Talk takes an honest look at what it’s really like to have a lot of money. When Jennifer Risher joined Microsoft in 1991, she met her husband, and with him became an extra-lucky beneficiary of the dot-com boom. By their early thirties, they had tens of millions of dollars. Today, there are millions of people like her.
- Reviewed by Sarahlyn Bruck
- October 27, 2020
Striking it rich doesn’t — or shouldn’t, at least — fundamentally change who you are.
Jennifer Risher was raised by parents who valued frugality and taught her that even speaking about money was distasteful. Her mother’s voice — insisting that the wealthy were “those people, aloof and superior” — is a refrain in her head.
“Being cautious with money,” she writes in We Need to Talk: A Memoir About Wealth, “had given me a sense of purpose, solidifying my place in our family and the world as a responsible person.”
We Need To Talk A Memoir About Wealth Review
So, when Risher and her husband, David, benefited tremendously from the 1990s dot-com boom, she felt poorly equipped to manage the windfall. The sudden surge in wealth not only had a huge impact on her family, but it also rocked her sense of who she thought she was.
Before delving into her own experience, however, Risher introduces the topic of wealth by depicting the expectations, gratitude, and worries that come with striking it rich. But hers is not a voyeuristic take on the affluent like “Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous,” MTV’s “Cribs,” or the “Real Housewives” franchise, nor is it a “how to get rich” book.
Instead, Risher’s aim is to start an honest conversation about a taboo topic — to “demystify wealth.” She’s cognizant that hers is just one of many perspectives, and she hopes others will add their viewpoints to the larger conversation.
Risher’s story begins when she is a twentysomething working for Microsoft, where she meets and falls in love with her future husband. They’re both earning relatively modest paychecks, but after a few years find the stock options that came with the job have grown exponentially, to the tune of tens of millions of dollars. At first, Risher writes, this didn’t signify wealth to the young employees:
“Intelligence, hard work, and a passion for technology were currency at Microsoft. While it was clear that options were a benefit, they were viewed as a bunch of numbers on paper, completely unrelated to everyday life. But in time, options began making us rich.”
It takes a long time for Risher to figure out how to spend the money. She’d grown up absorbing the same pop-culture depictions of wealth as everyone else — ostentatious mansions, fancy cars, exotic vacations — but at every turn is surprised by moneyed individuals who don’t live up to the image.
In her chapter entitled, “Houses,” she recalls attending a co-worker’s party held at his new home, designed as a modern French château in an exclusive, gated community. Jennifer and David were surprised to walk in and find the place a far cry from what they expected:
“He showed us into the kitchen, past gleaming granite countertops and an eight-burner stove, and through an expansive family room. We continued toward the back and onto a sprawling wooden deck, our footsteps echoing off the hardwood floors and cream-colored walls. Except for a college futon, some pillows, and a few empty Domino’s pizza boxes on the floor, the house was empty.”
I read Risher’s memoir in about a day, fascinated by the jaw-dropping dilemmas and questions she faces that most of us won’t ever have to consider. “Spoiling” her kids, for example, takes on new meaning when she and David decide not to take private jets to Hawaii and “only” fly first class instead. And, of course, there’s plenty that money can’t buy. As prosperous as she and her family are, they aren’t spared great pain, which she writes about in moving detail.
The “Contemplation and Conversation” questions at the end of each chapter were an odd addition. Instead of helping me engage with the material, they took me out of the narrative. I wonder if these book-club-type queries would be better placed as a collection at the very end.
And while I’m glad she’s using her experience to uncover some of the mysteries surrounding wealth and privilege, Risher’s story left me wanting to learn from perspectives other than white, middle-class, and cisgender. I appreciated her invitation for more people to join this ongoing conversation.
Self memoir. As a self-published memoir writer, I read this with appreciation. I do not agree with all that's said here. For example, '2. Do Your Research.' Of course certain events-those experienced publicly by a large number of people-need to be accurate. But even the word, 'memoir,' says it's about memory, not accuracy. 50 Short Memoirs - Examples of Narrative Personal Essays by Famous Authors The best examples of short memoir, narrative personal essays, reflective essays and creative nonfiction by famous writers Life. Scars by David Owen The Same River Twice by David Quammen. 30 more great articles about life. Unflinching, intoxicating, heartfelt, and propelled by an exceptional energy, Will is the long-awaited memoir by Will Self, whose works have been shortlisted for the Booker Prize and translated into over twenty languages. A portrait of the artist as a young addict, Will is one of the most eloquent and unusual depictions of the allure of hard drugs ever written. This item: Self-Consciousness: Memoirs by John Updike Paperback $17.00. Only 9 left in stock (more on the way). Ships from and sold by Amazon.com. FREE Shipping on orders over $25.00. Memories of a Catholic Girlhood by Mary McCarthy Paperback $15.30.
Ultimately, I suspect most readers will reach the same conclusion to the question, “Does money change life for the better?” Although it may make many things easier, your quality of life hinges on your sense of self before the windfall. No matter how rich you are, you’re still you.
Affinity photo chromebook. Sarahlyn Bruck is a community college writing professor and the author of two contemporary novels, Designer You and the forthcoming Daytime Drama. She lives in Philadelphia with her husband and daughter.
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We Need To Talk: A Memoir About Wealth
It's not easy walking in anyone's shoes even if they're Gucci. What happens when a humanitarian gets rich..a book like this is written? Thoroughly enjoyed her questions about wealth at the end of every chapter. It appears that Jennifer wrote this book to scratch her own itch and it came across as genuine and authentic. I don't subscribe to her liberal view of income inequality & that everyone has a right to housing and health care. For a first time author I give her a solid B.
What my ? heard ⤵️
i swallowed my upset
do you think wealth changes people or reveals more of who they are?
how does money connect or disconnect you from other people
money is the best way to motivate people it's the way society works we need to eat we need shelter then we want some jewelry
the father buys the sun builds the grandfather sells, and his son begs
I've long been worried about ending up shoeless on the street which was one of the reasons for continuing to work keeping my skills up to date and ensuring I would always be employable
the bill wasn't a problem for friends who shared our circumstances
I hadn't realized my wealth played such an outsized roll in his mind
without discussing the subject it was hard to know for sure what feelings existed beneath the surface
I'm wondering where my responsibility lies and all of this?
does the way you spend money match your values?
what would you do if you had all the money in the world?
how has money improved your life where has it failed to do so?
has there been a time when you would have given all your money in exchange for a different outcome?
What my ? heard ⤵️
i swallowed my upset
do you think wealth changes people or reveals more of who they are?
how does money connect or disconnect you from other people
money is the best way to motivate people it's the way society works we need to eat we need shelter then we want some jewelry
the father buys the sun builds the grandfather sells, and his son begs
I've long been worried about ending up shoeless on the street which was one of the reasons for continuing to work keeping my skills up to date and ensuring I would always be employable
the bill wasn't a problem for friends who shared our circumstances
I hadn't realized my wealth played such an outsized roll in his mind
without discussing the subject it was hard to know for sure what feelings existed beneath the surface
I'm wondering where my responsibility lies and all of this?
does the way you spend money match your values?
what would you do if you had all the money in the world?
how has money improved your life where has it failed to do so?
has there been a time when you would have given all your money in exchange for a different outcome?
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